NOTHING'S FREE IN LIFE, SO QUIT WHINGING AND START DOING SOME REAL WORK.... THAT'S TO YOu and YOU and YOU and you...especially to those who use their kids as excuses, like just because I have none I should naturally have more time to do more work. Apparently, I am not human, I don't have a family or commitments. And guess what? I don't eat or sleep or pee and most of all I don't have feelings.

yes I understand the kids part but I also know of people who handle it just fine. Bottom line is, you have kids... you can't manage both... that's it...it is pretty normal. By telling people you can't do this or that because of your child isn't going to make you less incompetent and what a horrible parent for blaming it on your child...so NO it does not make you a better parent by choosing child over work if you are a CHILD BLAMER.

Don't get the wrong idea... I may stay back to do work till what 8 or 9pm? But I do not expect people to do the same! Quite the opposite! Staying late to me means you are either incompetent or over work which still means you are stupid... because if it happens every now and again that's fine... if it happens every day for the rest of your work life...you obviously are too damn dumb to realise you are overworked and do something about it.

And if you tell me everyone in your office does it??? Well bunch of pessimistic dumb sheep working for the clever corporation. What? I don't understand? Oh I do... I understand that working 16 hours a day and all through weekends for someone else is being dumb and guess what... dumb people will be promoted... to middle management...for the rest of their lives. But you are not so dumb if you do all that without complaining and actually have a plan to go beyond(I hope someone like you exist)... I'm not all that clever either but I choose not to be a pessimistic sheep.

But I digress. I don't mind staying back to do some work but if I have to stay back because You and you and You cannot manage or happen to be a CHILD BLAMER then that pisses me off. I don;t want to stay... I could leave and let it all fall apart.... But I have worked too hard for this... for a job I don't love but for the simple reason that I take pride in my work anywhere I go. I built this (I am fiercely possessive that way..)...so if you are going to come along and be stupid and ruin it all... I will take you down! Me and CJR with our Black Belts! Hiayak!

Only saving grace? Thank goodness for the my hunnie bunnies-my wing girls in the office...And I have something most people don't have-the good employer. So say WHAT pessimistic Dolly?